One Hand Cooking Episode 5: The Finale!
What, you might be wondering, is the point of this series of cooking meals with one hand? Why, you might be asking yourself, would anyone willingly cook with one hand when cooking with two hands makes more sense and is easier?
Well, first of all, good questions and I ask myself these often. Let me attempt to answer. First, we don’t always have the option of cooking with two hands when we have little babies. Otto, while increasing his independence, is also glued to my side pretty often. So, out of pure necessity One Hand Cooking was born and I decided to try to make lemonade (food and book marketing) out of lemons (his clinginess).
The real impetus behind creating this series was to show that you can still nourish yourself with healthy food when you have children. More than that, I want you to know that you are worthy of eating delicious, nutrient-dense food when you’re considering pregnancy, pregnant, raising a family, or really, just existing in this exhausting world. You’re not just worthy of good food, you are worthy of pleasure. As a complex and intricate human, you deserve your tastebuds to tingle with delight as you close your eyes momentarily to really taste your food.
So often we’re told to eat healthy food, get enough exercise, and take care of ourselves. Part of my goal in writing How to Grow a Baby was to take this off-hand advice and demonstrate how to actually weave it into daily life in a way that is meaningful and sustaining. I cooked with one hand because in doing so I was able to include my children in the process of cooking and thus, in the act of sharing food—which is a form of deep caring. It isn’t always easy, and I don’t always cook with one hand if I can help it (I often suggest everyone go outside while I cook), but it’s good to know we can do hard things.
The other reason for creating this series, I realized, was to show that this season of cooking, or doing almost anything, with one hand is fleeting. While filming episode one, I could barely put Otto down and now, months later, I’m back to using two hands occasionally while he plays. It is a small, yet immensely meaningful, transformation.
One Hand Cooking | 3 Rules
Safety. Sometimes its safety first and sometimes its safety third in our house.
Let go. Dear self, take your own advice, follow this rule, forget it and remember it, hold your breath and then remember to breathe, hold on too tight and then release. It’s all a big cycle anyways.
Accept help. Ok, self, here I go again. Stop being too proud, too stubborn, and too self-righteous to accept help. You want it, you need it and you love it and everyone gets a better version of you when you take care of yourself.